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papa T
Posted: Wednesday, April 23, 2008 12:10:50 AM
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It was late and I ain't had the best couple of days, and the cat, that everyone loves, just succotash behind the TV. I am the only one up for duty so...
This is, btw, the second time. Wanna cat? Really, he(it) needs a place to live, although swiss cat comes to mind Think



This is the edited part from my post in John study.

If I wanted to know someone very well, intimately if you will, and possably my life or livelyhood depended on it, how would I go about it, what would I do? Would I gather all the material I could on the person and spend time mentally ingesting it? Maybe I'd seek to secure an audience with said person, even as much as I could get. If I was so enamoured with that person would I not tell other people about them?

Here is another line of thought. Take a best friend. He's a friend and by definition the best, worth the time to spend with for whatever particular reasons because they enhance your life right? Fun to be around. Right there ready to listen and only talk just at the right time to lift up, bolster strength, encourage, or even keep a little reigned in.

Something else, a true friend doesn't pay any mind to others' teasing or ridicule for being a friend. Obviously the others are ignorant of the great friend one may have. This greatness will bear out when sometime you screw up real bad and hurt that friend, when he forgives. Yup, a great friend, an intimate friend, one that is a part of life that if missing is sorely missed.
Know anyone like that?

I do.

He wanted intimacy with us so bad he became one of us. Then he was crucified for all of us.....cruel excruciating agony to secure that intimacy.
(More thoughts go here but now I am tired)


Talk to Him about it. Read the most astounding book you'll ever pick up, it is all about it.
I am thankful though, that my friend, my father, abba (Heb. daddy), isn't as negligent about our intimacy as I am.
PaulSwany
Posted: Wednesday, April 23, 2008 9:14:46 AM

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Good post papa T.... I've been thinking a lot about my relationship with the Lord. I know that is the piece in my life that fulfils the hunger inside of me. Nothing else satisfies.

What I’m finding out now is that He at the end of the day… It’s not about me and it’s not about my fulfillment. It’s not even about my relationship…. It’s about total submission to Christ and totally relinquishing control of my life to Him.

It’s not about my self esteem or “feeling” good about myself….. It’s not about beating myself up for all the stupid choices or hating myself for what I’m not. It’s not about doing all the right things so I can feel like I’ve “served” God…

At this point in my life, it’s about total reliance on the Lord for everything. I guess in a lot of ways, it’s embracing powerlessness.
wagas
Posted: Friday, April 25, 2008 5:36:25 AM

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Embracing Powerlessness. I like that. It's tough to understand the true meaning of that.... Good one Paul

Papa_t, I like whata you said....I think you could include that a true friend puts everyone else before himself as well. Something Christ did....he died for our sins. He died for us. At that point the curtian was torn and we forever have a personal relationship directly with him, without having to go thru a priest. Matthew 27-:51
papa T
Posted: Sunday, April 27, 2008 7:21:34 AM
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I agree, embracing powerlessness is a very profound concept. Making that a way of life is even more profound.

I think we as christians do that but maybe in a rubberband kind of way sometimes. Worry would be a good barometer of this. The more we embrace powerlessness, and therefore dependence on Jesus Christ, the less we will in turn use worry as our self-reliant means of dealing with "stuff". As we mature in our faith we, hopefully, use shorter rubberbands maybe?

It is curious to me how this ties into wagas' thought about a true friend to my earlier post. As a true friend we should be putting others before us. The powerlessness comes in not knowing how we may be treated or taken advantage of or used even. We depend on Jesus for taking care of how we may be treated.
Imagine depending on, even embracing the fact of, your vehicle not starting in the morning. (bear with me here) You have no idea how you will accomplish the half-hour trek to work. Imagine loving, even relishing, the idea of not knowing how but completely relying on knowing that YHWH is going to get it done. Of course the car starts (hopefully) and you drive to work, but you get the picture.

Me? yea I work at it every day. Well really Jesus is patient as I try to not work at it more and more and just let Him do it.

-afterthought- how humbling it is to realize this is all to an end of His good work in me for His glory. You are right Paul, it is not about me. (sorry, was trying to get not deeper)
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